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Protecting Children From Bullying Save Email Print
Anti-Defamation League, parents uniting to take bullying seriously
Posted: 9:53 PM Mar 16, 2008
Last Updated: 1:56 AM Mar 17, 2008
Email Address: sixonline@wowt.com

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When children are at school, parents trust that teachers and administrators will protect kids and discipline them when necessary, but it doesn't always happen. Channel 6 News uncovered two cases at Westside High School where bullying went too far.

One of the incidents involved a swastika and the message “no Jews.” In another case, a student withdrew because he felt he was in danger at the school.

There’s a gray area between the law and the school rules and what parents can do.

"There was a swastika on it and a message that says ‘no Jews,’” says the student we called Mark who last week told his story of being bullied.

Channel 6 News obtained a copy of the hate note. The suspects wrote the words "no Jews" over the picture of a dead actor.

Since Mark's story aired, Alan Potash with the Anti-Defamation League says his phone has been ringing with calls from outraged parents. “That's a hurtful and hateful remark and should not be tolerated.”

Potash says he's been in touch with school administrators who couldn't comment on the incident, but says there are lessons all of us can learn. “Whether it's a religious, ethnic, racial incident, we need to educate students as well as faculty to make sure these things don't happen in our community and especially in our schools.”

Pam Kruse is coordinator for Parents United Against Bullying. She says bullies victimized her son Matthew, too. “So far as to be put into trash cans and rolled downhill on the way to the bus. He's been beaten up on his way home from the bus. It's run the gambit from verbal to physical.”

Kruse says seeing her son victimized taught her important lessons about combating bullying. She says parents need to get educated about the issue and if bullying is happening to your child, she says get involved and be heard at school. "It's not a rite of passage, it's not just kids being kids. It is really emotionally, socially damaging."

Kruse says she started Parents United Against Bullying because parents need a resource and support network with other parents. The PUAB Web site is mwpuab.com.

The Westside School Board meets at 6:30 p.m. Monday at the ABC Building, 909 South 76th Street. The public is invited to attend.

We learned over the weekend that prosecutors are considering additional charges in the bullying case for the swastika, those are in addition to the assault charges for the ipecac incident.

Two students allegedly put the substance in Mark’s drink and he became ill.

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Posted by: Barb on May 14, 2008 at 06:38 PM
My question is - has anyone pulled out the school handbook and really read it? It addresses harrasement but the schools don't seem to abide by their own rules. They pick and choose. Been there and done that. The administrators look at you like you made up the handbook and they don't have to even read go by the rules that they set. My advise is go to the principle until they get sick and tired of you complaining about the bully and they finally do something. Don't let the bullies win!!

Posted by: ZOZO on Mar 19, 2008 at 10:55 AM
WHAT TO DO WITH BULLYS AT SCHOOL? WHAT THEY DO IN SINGARORE ONE (1) HEALTHY WEAPON WITH A BELT ACROSS THE BUTTOCKS,GIVEN BY THE POLICE DEP. THAT WILL FIX. REMEMBER YOUR BUTTOCKS HAVE NO TALENT WHATSOEVER,SO LET THEM HAVE IT.

Posted by: anonymous on Mar 18, 2008 at 11:14 AM
Dig into your pockets and send your boys to Prep or girls to Marian. They dont put up with bullying. Obviously the "the bulliers" have no self respect.

Posted by: ann on Mar 18, 2008 at 11:10 AM
To Hurting Mom, Obviously by now you know who these kids are that are bullying your child. Press charges that is the only way it seems it will stop, if it is allowed to continue. Your son's self esteem have to be zero. Dont just watch it happen.

Posted by: Pam on Mar 18, 2008 at 07:22 AM
Sorry if it feels like Westside is the only one taking all the heat right now. You're right, it does happen everywhere! And you make a good point... "people should be thinking of solutions to help the whole community". That's precisely the goal of Parents United Against Bullying. Care to work with us to make that happen?

Posted by: Anonymos on Mar 17, 2008 at 10:46 PM
GET OVER IT

Posted by: Chris on Mar 17, 2008 at 10:06 PM
No matter how ridiculous it seems, Jerrod has a good point, well said Jerrod.

Posted by: M on Mar 17, 2008 at 09:25 PM
Personally, I believe that Westside is being targeted and singled out. There are many many more issues in every school in Omaha, why pick on Westside? Because we supposedly have rich students? Because our teachers are supposedly the best? I could report on issues happening at Millard North, Central, Papillion, that I hear about on a weekly basis. People should come to Westside and shadow a student, then they will realize how good Westside truly is. Our teachers promote higher level thinking and our students are intelligent, making each student learn faster and at a higher level. Two bullying issues should not turn people away from Westside. I advise people to examine other area schools, and realize how many problems THEY have! Bullying takes place everywhere! People should not be bashing westside and our administration, rather thinking of solutions to help the whole community!

Posted by: Student on Mar 17, 2008 at 09:25 PM
People are calling us Hollywood high punks who rely on our rich daddy's to bail us out of our problems (see below, "D"). well let me tell you something. You're blaming us for bullying, but I'm pretty sure that is a form of bullying right there and it is also prejudice. Not everyone is like this at Westside and I would appreciate it if people would realize it is only a couple of students out of 2000. Thank You.

Posted by: Jessica on Mar 17, 2008 at 07:57 PM
In terms of Westside handling bullying any differently than other districts, I can't say I've seen enough evidence to prove that there policies are different. Even the young man on the news discussing his experiences with bullying, whom I applaud for this, did not actually go to Westside. I also experienced having an ethnic slur posted on my locker over a decade ago, and that student was never brought to see consequences. I believe the experiences of the parents of Westside students to be valid ones, but I am yet to be convinced that Westside deals with bullying any differently and more likely to believe that they have recently had a string of related events probably related to a small group of students. I feel for all those who have had students bullied out there and think it should be dealt with, with utmost gravity, but still, let us not lose our heads towards one school in particular.

Posted by: Hurting Mom on Mar 17, 2008 at 06:21 PM
My son has been bullied in school since he was in kindergarten. He is now in high school and the verbal bullying continues. He finally stood up for himself last year and pushed a kid and he got suspended. We live in a small town so I cannot move him to another school. The school won't do anything about it. I was told my son needs to come tell about it but then he will be bullied more for telling on kids. Something needs to be done and done now!!!!

Posted by: To Jerrod on Mar 17, 2008 at 05:21 PM
Nasty Little kids are created by nasty, poor parenting. That's the ideal place for change to start. Our kids are growing fast, they need the support of the adults around them to learn to make healthy choices about conflict magangement. Bullying is never the answer. When you fight back with physical violence as a child you are a bully, as an adult you are a criminal. You have to change the behavior before they end up in jail.

Posted by: A Mom on Mar 17, 2008 at 04:51 PM
Personally I think these kids should be expelled. I don't understand such hate. And if the parents condone this behavior shame on them.

Posted by: Lou on Mar 17, 2008 at 04:11 PM
Some of you people are idiots. "Hollywood High" is a term from the 70's and 80's...not applicable to the 2000's. Spend a day in the halls at Westside before you comment. We have more racial and ethnic diversity, more economic diversity, more tolerance for alternative life styles than any other high school I have friends at. Westside is a good place. Are there bullies? Yes. There are everywhere. The thing is people need to address the bullies, report the bullies and let them get away with it. 99% of the kids are doing the right thing and are good kids. Walk the halls, talk with varied students, not just the ones complaining (the squeeky wheel gets the grease). The so-called victims in some of these cases are bullies themselves and got paid back. Now they complain. It isn't easy, but thsoe of you who think Westside is the problem need to wake up and rethink what you are thinking.

Posted by: We need a change! on Mar 17, 2008 at 03:50 PM
I graduated from OPS and now have 3 children attending District 66. I have noticed that discipline is handled differently in the District 66 school system. Not everyone is treated the same. There are inconsistencies on how problems are handled. If you come from an affluent family your treatment is different compared to the single parent/poor family in the district. My sister has a niece that attends the same school as our kids. She is a good student, but is treated differently by teachers and administrators. The support system is not there for these kids or families. Also, there is not counseling available to students if they have a family member that is involved in a violent crime. I believe OPS has a standard policy to handle this and provide school support for the student. We are very lucky to have so many wonderful schools in the Omaha area to choose from, but I think it is time for District 66 to get up to speed with policies similar to the other school districts.

Posted by: C on Mar 17, 2008 at 03:36 PM
We have diversity training in corporate america. Why not a required class on diversity in the schools?

Posted by: Jerrod on Mar 17, 2008 at 03:08 PM
The Wuss-i-fication continues. The teachers are there to teach, not police. The Kids aren't allowed to stand up for themselves because the same people who think "Bullies" are the number one problem in America are also the same numbskulls who propose "Zero Tolerance" for fighting. When you aren't allowed to defend yourself, who is going to do it? then the kids snap and people get shot. You want to go back to the days where the kids had fist fights after school daily or weekly? Or do you want stay here and wait for the shootings every so often. You aren't going to make little nasty kids go away anymore than you can make gang members disappear. Either fight back, or get out of the way. Don't infringe on the kids rights to stand up for himself.

Posted by: anon on Mar 17, 2008 at 02:37 PM
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WestsideParentsUnite Help is on the way...

Posted by: Do Something! on Mar 17, 2008 at 02:34 PM
Yes there are bullies everywhere and that's not going to change. What does need to change is the way Westside deals with it. They should have a zero tolerance policy. My child attended OPS and then westside and I would rate OPS much much better when it comes to the safety of my child. Westside needs to stop giving white glove treatment to selected individuals. It is sad to a see a place of learning become a place of bigotry, prejudice and ignorance. Westside should be ashamed of itself.

Posted by: Pam on Mar 17, 2008 at 02:28 PM
Thanks for your posts everyone! Keep 'em coming! There ARE things we can do about bullying. Our children DO NOT have to just sit back and take it until their out of school. The first step is public awareness... and as we're seeing, the public is outrages, as well they should be. You're right. It's not just at Westside, it is everywhere. And the culture that allow it to happen needs to change. We need to have a community and schools that says, "bullying isn't cool, it's cowardly". That's what we're working for. That's the goal. Every child should be able to go to school and focus on learning, not spend their day worrying about the next time their going to be vervally, racially or physically attacked (just to name a few). COME ON OMAHA. THE MOMENTUM TO CHANGE THIS CULTURE HAS BEGUN. LET'S KEEP IT GOING.

Posted by: Mike B. on Mar 17, 2008 at 02:06 PM
The kids who do the bullying amount to nothing more but PUNKS! They do the bullying to boost their own morale. If any of those "punks" that are doing the bullying read these post, GET A LIFE, STOP the bullying. How would you like it if someone treated you the same way???!! How about turning it around and helping out someone who needs it, instead of the bullying. You would feel better about yourself and would not be hurting a fellow student. Give it a good try and quit being a punk. It really only makes you look really stupid.

Posted by: D on Mar 17, 2008 at 02:03 PM
I agree with Jan. These "Hollywood High" punks think they can get away with everything because mommy and daddy will bail them out. Money doesn't buy respect or make your punk a model citizen.

Posted by: Jay on Mar 17, 2008 at 01:07 PM
The women who represented Westside on TV was so cold concerning this issue. She was not sincere nor did she act like they were concerned about things going on at Westside. You have to have a zero tolerance policy on this type of behavior. Hopefully this is a wake up call to all the Omaha area school administrations.

Posted by: mom on Mar 17, 2008 at 11:49 AM
Shame on Westside for allowing this behavior......and yes....clearly the allow it. We live in this district but will think twice before sending our children there. I feel that private schools show a bit more concern on ths particular subject.

Posted by: Mom on Mar 17, 2008 at 11:46 AM
School don't do anything about bullying. I have seen teachers do it and quite often PE teachers encourage this behavior. If bullying is ever going to be under control you better start with the examples.

Posted by: L on Mar 17, 2008 at 11:31 AM
This is one of the many reasons we homeschool our children.

Posted by: mid town on Mar 17, 2008 at 11:14 AM
let me get this straight, if your a teenager (at westside) hate crimes don't pertain to them? the ipecac incident should warrant pretty serious charges itself. but since this happened quite some time ago I have to ask who are they protecting? athletes? the westside administration should be brought up on charges as well.

Posted by: A on Mar 17, 2008 at 10:43 AM
The problem is the '0' tolerance of violence in any means...even defense. Children today don't know how to defend themselves...they are taught 'touchy feely' ineffective crap. They need to be taught to stand up for and defend themselves on every level.

Posted by: student on Mar 17, 2008 at 10:11 AM
I am in high school...maybe you guys should look at the bullying at all the high schools in the United States other than just Westside. It happens EVERYWHERE and many people feel like you are targeting Westside because there are many prejudices, like they are white rich people that hate blacks. This is NOT true AT ALL. Yes bullying is a problem in every high school and there should be actions taken to stop it, but do not zone in on one high school. I guarantee the same things happen in OPS, Millard School District, Bellevue School District, Lewis Central, Thomas Jefferson, ect.

Posted by: mike on Mar 17, 2008 at 08:10 AM
Dear WOWT, Thank you for reporting on the "bullying" problem at Westside. The silence from the Westside School Board and School Administration is deafening. Do these leaders lack the courage to talk about the issue? Or do they just prefer to promote new ball fields, performing arts centers and ivory towers. WOWT, please attend the Westside school board meeting tonight!

Posted by: Jan on Mar 17, 2008 at 07:39 AM
Kudos to WOWT for bringing this to the public and for the courage the students and parents who have been victims of Hollywood High sweeping things under the carpet to avoid "publicity", you can hold your heads high! This just goes to show that this type of behavior exists everywhere but at least other schools have strict policies that apply to everyone and not just "case by case" depending on who can buy their way out of it.

Posted by: Jeff on Mar 17, 2008 at 07:38 AM
"Anti-Defamation League, parents uniting to take bullying seriously" Many schools are out of the loop on this issue. "When children are at school, parents trust that teachers and administrators will protect kids..." That trust has been broken.

Posted by: Allen on Mar 17, 2008 at 07:15 AM
Stop messing around with these kids and put them in jail for a while. Perhaps a few administrators or school board members need to go with them....

Posted by: Tony C on Mar 17, 2008 at 03:36 AM
You guys don't even hear about the bullying that the school does. My little brother and his friends are the 10 most watched kids in school because they dress differently... they get followed and harrassed by the Westside High School Staff...

Posted by: E on Mar 17, 2008 at 03:10 AM
I was bullied. Nothing I tried stopped it. The emotional trauma from being beaten up on a regular basis and sexually assaulted once by one of the bullies has followed me into adulthood. You may think that someone will figure out a way to stop the bullies. It'll never happen. There will always be sadistic children who get off causing other kids emotional trauma. What you should do is try to stop kids from bringing guns to school. Try to convince the kids being bullied that school is not forever, try to give the bullied kids some sort of creative outlet like art, crochet, knitting, dog training, tutoring other kids...anything to teach them that there's nothing wrong with them. It's the bullies who have something wrong with them.

Posted by: witness on Mar 17, 2008 at 01:26 AM
You guys only "uncovered" 2 . I use to work at Westside .. How about 10 that I was aware of. You have uncovered anything ...

Posted by: Andrew on Mar 16, 2008 at 11:07 PM
Westside is known for kids like this, I use to go there but turned and went to the alternative school. Kids would go down the hall and shove there backpacks into you I threw a guy in to the wall for doin it. I tell you he learned not to do it again to me. The kids need to be taught a lesson. I say throw the kid in jail that spiked my friends drink.

Posted by: Anonymous on Mar 16, 2008 at 10:19 PM
We must stop it as soon as it starts! I was bullied out of a job by a nasty, little man, Bucky, (Not the gas man) He was well known for bullying people at work, and chased many good people away!

Posted by: jeff on Mar 16, 2008 at 10:15 PM
Some of these ignorant kids who pratice this bullying/racial thing should be thrown in jail.Then they'll see how tough they think they are.

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