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Michigan Boy Latest Safe Haven Case Save Email Print
Posted: 10:07 AM Oct 13, 2008
Last Updated: 11:03 PM Oct 13, 2008
Reporter: Dennis Wilden
Email Address: sixonline@wowt.com

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A Michigan woman drove some 12 hours to abandon her 13-year-old son at Creighton University Medical Center. He is the second child from out of state to be dropped off under Nebraska's safe haven law.

The Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services says the mother made the trip to Nebraska specifically to abandon the teen, but they aren't sure what triggered her decision. Officials say the teen did not appear to be in any immediate danger.

Todd Landry, director of the Division of Children and Family Services for DHHS, says officials have contacted the Michigan Department of Human Services to inform them of the abandonment. Landry said the department is working with Michigan officials and the Douglas County Attorney's office to resolve this situation as quickly as possible.

Officials have said parents and caregivers contemplating using the law need to understand there is no guarantee a child could be returned to them if they change their minds. The placement may involve the courts, and the process of regaining custody may prove difficult.

They have encouraged parents to seek other resources before resorting to abandonment. They've urged desperate parents to ask for help from family, faith-based groups and other community services before abandoning their children at hospitals.

This is the 10th instance of use of LB 157 and the 18th child left at a hospital under the law since September 13. The Safe Haven law went into effect in July.

Nebraska was the last state to enact such a law. In most other states safe haven laws are intended to protect newborns, but State Senators allowed Nebraska's law to apply to children as old as 19-years-old.

Some state senators have been calling for a special session of the Nebraska Legislature to fix the problem, but as of Monday there had been no decision.

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Posted by: Mike on Oct 14, 2008 at 02:44 PM
Is it such a bad thing for Nebraska to be known as a state that will take all children? I, for one, am proud to be a Nebraskan that cares for all children regardless of where they are from.

Posted by: Charlie on Oct 14, 2008 at 04:35 AM
Before all this started no one knew where the state of Nebraska was, they thought we were all farmers out here with 19th century technology. At least we are on the map now.

Posted by: Brian on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:42 PM
LB 157 go to http://uniweb.legislature.ne.gov/FloorDocs/Current/PDF/Journal/r2journal.pdf#page=539 and find out if your senator voted for this bill. In times that have found states to struggle these idiots have created a pool that parents from inside and out can toss their unwanted 17 year olds into without regard for who is going to pay for it. No need for a new session? These names need to be voted out, because it is clear they can not be trusted with our money.

Posted by: Phil on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:20 PM
I hope that those people tearing the law apart are thinking about those children and the families that are struggling on a daily basis. As a teacher, I see children that need so much more than what I as a teacher can give them. Though it is late, at least these families are giving their children a shot at a better life by separating themselves and their habits from those children. We love to cast judgment on people and things that we don't understand. Many of us are free of financial destitution, drug addiction, etc. Our job is to make it possible for these kids to grow up with all the possibilities and opportunities available. Name calling doesn't make the issue easier for the people involved. Though I fear that this new law isn't properly funded, we need to do all we can to make the world a better place for these abandoned children. Some type of consequence should befall those parents that have put their children through this trauma. I'm glad our state got it right.

Posted by: Kimberly on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Well obviously our legislature needs to do a better job when drafting legislation. Just think that all laws in our state are this shoddy and full of holes. As for the parents, they should never have the option of regaining custody. Once you destroy your child like that you're done. What that kid must have been thinking for 13 hours.

Posted by: Sarah on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:17 PM
This actually doesn't surprise me. Being in public education, I see so many parents more involved with their tattoos, cell phones, gold chains, and piercings than their own children. There are parents out there that just have a "me" attitude that would easily drop their kids off.

Posted by: Concerned Mom on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:14 PM
I am for the safe haven law in Nebraska although I live in Iowa. I have a son who has had MANY issues. He was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes as a teen, shortly after his birthday. We have had 3 years of total chaos. Everything from drugs to self mutilation to skipping school, getting expelled,and running away. Of course it hant been easy. I also have two younger children. It is extremely difficult to deal with life crumbling around you and being strong for the other kids. The problem is, there is not any help that a parent/guardian can obtain from the state unless you are neglecting or abusing the child. Of course if you did neglect or abuse your child, it puts the others at risk of being removed as well. I was told that he has no option for help unless he commited a felony. That is RIDICULOUS! There is not enough assistance available to parents! People arent tired of parenting teens, they are at a loss with nowhere to turn. Maybe the juvenile system needs reviewed, not the law.

Posted by: ne citizen on Oct 13, 2008 at 09:11 PM
All of you are missing the picture here. Regardless of age these kids are still kids. None of us really know the reasons behind the decisions of these parents. It is unfortunate that the law is not working as was meant to, but these kids are just as important as a child under 5.

Posted by: Ron on Oct 13, 2008 at 08:22 PM
Well if these damn kids wouldn't act up we wouldn't have to do this. Rotten kids.

Posted by: Jeff on Oct 13, 2008 at 07:33 PM
What a freaking idiot!!! Now we have out of state people dropping their kids off at our door steps.If this doesnt get the law changed I dont know what will?

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 07:26 PM
Shouldn't they have to pay something...like they would for out-of-state tuition?

Posted by: Brandon on Oct 13, 2008 at 07:21 PM
It must have been a long drive for the kid

Posted by: Reality Check on Oct 13, 2008 at 06:50 PM
Are these genius state senators going to approve additional state funding for all of the emergency shelters, residential facilities and foster homes that are being overran by abandoned children? If the money wasn't there for earlier intervention, what makes you think it will be there now? These kids and families are in crisis! Do something a bit more proactive than just create the ill thought out law that allows desperate parents to abandon their children

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 06:37 PM
What a joke. How can a parent just drop their child off like that?!

Posted by: scott on Oct 13, 2008 at 06:08 PM
Boys Town was built to help unwanted children. Can Boys Town step in and take the kids placed into care due to the new Safe Haven law? This could be a win-win for kids, BoysTown and Nebraska.

Posted by: At Last! on Oct 13, 2008 at 05:47 PM
An answer to our tourism woes! Good job elected politicians!

Posted by: Elizabeth on Oct 13, 2008 at 05:34 PM
I think there is a need for help nationwide. It is easy to dismiss the behavior of another without having experienced the circumstances. Go to a doctor and the 'cure' is pricey meds. Even the best parents cannot 'cure' some issues. When I was a kid thirty years ago the solution for behavior problems included a fist, belt or switch from a tree and the beating of all self esteem and pride out of the child. Prior to that 'problem kids'may be drugged and placed in mental wards. Electric shock was also quite popular. I think we need a review of the bill- I think we need two solutions- safe haven for infants and perhaps a means to aide those who are overwhelmed. Sure there are some things in place today but I do not beleive they offer practical help- just administrative overhead.

Posted by: emailthegovernor on Oct 13, 2008 at 05:14 PM
www.governor.nebraska.gov/mail/govmail.html He has the power to call a special session. I think we ought to start telling him to do so! By the way this law was to protect babies. How many of these parents intend to kill their pre teen or teen if NE wont take them? NOT even suggesting that but the law is being abused under the guise that these kids need the option of being dumped at a hospital. If a parent is abusing a kid he is not going to dump them at a hospital. These poor kids! Change this law NOW and provide these parents with some other form of "help"!

Posted by: Henry on Oct 13, 2008 at 05:11 PM
Have a child, raise it for a few years, decide you don't want the child and give the child to Nebraska, then the poor taxpayers wind up taking responsibility for all children regardless of where they live. Congratulations Nebraska! You've made all children disposable with this law!

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 05:04 PM
I wonder if we get more federal tax dollars, taking kids from other states.

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:57 PM
ok so now nebraska is going to become a dumping ground for worthless parents who cant control there teenagers

Posted by: Thanks Ernie on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:51 PM
To those that don't remember, Ernie is the one who opposed this bill in ANY form. He made them take out age limits before he would let it get passed. Thus, no special session will handle this, as Ernie is still an elected official.

Posted by: CM on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:51 PM
"Some state senators have been calling for a special session...as of Monday there has been no decision." Well, if they made an alphabetical list of our state senators and then every time a child over, let's say, the age of 1 month, is dropped off, the next state senator on the list takes the child into their home until this is resolved, I somehow think they would get "back in session."

Posted by: Sarge on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:34 PM
Let's give these unwanted children to the senators that voted for this bill. Maybe that will get them to change their mind and call a special session!

Posted by: Terry on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:22 PM
To Jarbeau, I don't mean physically slap them. I mean in the court system. You don't go to another state to leave your child. There is help out there you just have to keep fighting to find it. This law needs rewritten. It should be for children that are in danger ( little ones 5 and under) not teenagers that parents just don't know what to do or don't want to do anything to make it better. I agree with Mike we are becoming a dumping ground for unwanted kids and that isn't right. PARENTS PARENT YOUR CHILD, IF YOU NEED HELP SEEK IT AND YOU WILL FIND IT.

Posted by: Spike on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:16 PM
I realize this law was intended to help infants/toddlers but OBVIOUSLY there alot of parents with older children that need help as well. The world didnt become the mess it is over night, and ALL the kids need some type of help. Maybe its time parents become oh whats the word parents? again instead of buddies...

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 04:06 PM
You have got to be kidding me. I cant believe this crazy person drove all the way from Michigan to dump her kid. How long is the state going to let this go on. You dont want your kid, so just dump them in Omaha.

Posted by: ann on Oct 13, 2008 at 03:48 PM
There has to be a better way, but if it saves a childs life, what else do you do? We already have too many kids in state custody to give them all the proper care they need.

Posted by: Tim on Oct 13, 2008 at 03:44 PM
Shut this law down NOW!!! This thing is a ridiculous joke of a law. Who's the feel-good idiot that thought this was a good idea?

Posted by: mike jones on Oct 13, 2008 at 03:09 PM
Isn't about time a special session was called.Are the state senators so busy that they can't get together and prevent another kid from being dragged 1000 miles across the country so they're parents can drop them off. Is the legislature that closed minded that they didn't think people will drop off older children.

Posted by: barney on Oct 13, 2008 at 03:04 PM
Send Nebraska some more of your tired and hungry.

Posted by: Obed on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:46 PM
When the legislature Is back in session they can extend this law to include abused parents and senior citizens. Social problems are not going to be resolved by enacting laws. No matter how well intentioned.

Posted by: To all the out-of-staters on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:37 PM
I say that if you don't pay taxes in the great state of Nebraska then you aren't allowed to dump your kids here. Since it is the tax payers money that will foot the bill for these kids.

Posted by: carol on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:37 PM
This law has made Nebraska a dumping ground for unwanted kids and I think it is a damn shame to all the lawmakers we have here. This law needed to be revised when they made it and evidently no one looked at it before signing it into law. Call the special session now and fix this before our Social Services system is so over run with unwanted children that the children in the state who have lived here all their lives are lost in the paper work, again. Wasn't there a story just not to long ago about how there are so many kids and so few foster homes for them? Well, now there are none because of this law. Change it to read "children under the age of 5" and that will protect the children in the highest risk group for abuse and abandonment.

Posted by: Dave on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:36 PM
Ok so now we hear the parents flew from Michigan to do this,so obviously this was not a money issue as far as caring for the child. These parenst should be jailed IMMEDIATELY! Also every single elected official who voted for this insane law should be ticketed with FELONY child neglect,since it was their stupidity that has caised life long trauma to all of these kids.

Posted by: cece on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:33 PM
While we are changeing this law, can we include that once a parent leaves a child at a safe haven, they automatically terminate their rights to the child...there is no going back. They can't change there minds or do it to teach a lessen.

Posted by: Repeal the Law on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:17 PM
Call a special session to repeal the law because of the unintended consequences. Then, when the new legislature meets with some new people involved, take time and really discuss everything, including how to let people with older kids find out how to get help for them. And don't make getting help so difficult for them.

Posted by: S on Oct 13, 2008 at 02:07 PM
I think I am the only one that thinks this law is a good thing! If you can drive all the way from Michigan and still feel the need to dump your kid, obviously there is a problem! The hours upon hours in the car should have maybe made you think twice... but obviously it didn't. If you are willing to drive that far and still haven't changed your mind about getting rid of your kid, then obviously the parent cannot handle being a parent!

Posted by: Mary on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:57 PM
How can it not be abandament to come to another state just to leave your child, because you dont want to deal with them any more. The parents that do this should still be charged. You didnt hear about people from Nebraska going to Iowa or any other bordering state to leave infants when we didnt have a safe haven law. I whole heartly agree that we need a safe haven law, but it is time to fix it, to stop these people from droping off their teenagers. Where are the extended families of the kids??

Posted by: confused on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:52 PM
Who introduced this law?

Posted by: Terri on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:52 PM
Bob thanks for the laugh - that is too funny!!!

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:47 PM
I sure wish we could know the real details of these stories. Was this kid relieved to be free of a mental case mother, perhaps? Or a mental case himself that might have killed Grandma? You know it must be something serious to warrent a trip from Michigan.

Posted by: Butch on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:47 PM
Leave it to the morons in Lincoln to pass a law after giving it, perhaps, a nanosecond of thought. Our vaunted Unicameral is a laughing stock!

Posted by: S on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:42 PM
I said this last week, Creighton will now become the nation's center to drop off your unwanted children related to the publicity surrounding this whole mess. So sad. You drive all the way from Michigan to drop off your child? And tell me those people have no resources. They were resourceful enough to drive across the country to dump their child with complete strangers.

Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 13, 2008 at 01:17 PM
Its time for a psecial session to be called. Nebraska has become the dumping place for all these people that don't want to take care of their responsibility. Something needs to be done to stop it.

Posted by: tony on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:57 PM
seriously, someone needs to fix this already

Posted by: Jen on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:49 PM
I fully believe in the safe haven law - for infants/toddlers! Obviously people are taking advantage of a good thing. My heart just aches for all these poor children - this should be a wake up call for the country that there's bigger issues out there.

Posted by: Chuck on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:46 PM
I hope the Legislature will listen to Ernie this time.

Posted by: mike on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:44 PM
Nebraska's new state moto should be "Bring us your unwanted kids" or "Dump your kids off state" I sure cant see when parents start to plan their family vacations any kid will jump up and say lets go to Nebraska.

Posted by: HD on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:41 PM
Tax-Me-State my foot. We are now the laughing stock of the country. How stupid can the state legislature be. Did these people learn to be idiots or were they born that way?

Posted by: Child Advocate on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:39 PM
I believe changing the law may be necessary but we must also remember that this will only put a bandaid on the problem. Services need to be provided to famlilies in Nebraska and elsewhere to assist them in parenting their chidlren at home if possible. This may range from Therapy to Intensive Family Support to hosptialization depending on the child's behavioral health needs. I think in most, not all, cases these famlies need help and they aren't sure where to turn. As everyone said leaving a child at the hosptial is not a good solution but we need to figure out what else needs to be done so families don't feel they need to do this. I think suggestions from the community to thier state senators on services that they are aware of that may be helpful would be a great place to start.

Posted by: Jarbeau on Oct 13, 2008 at 12:14 PM
To Terry, slapping someone is assault and should be committed by no one. I just hope they spent some money while in town. Tourists are good, right?

Posted by: Dave on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:49 AM
Well at least the safe haven law seems to be increasing people from other states to visit our glorius state.

Posted by: Terry on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:38 AM
Someone needs to slap these people. You don't go to another state to abandon your child. Of course they feel they won't face charges and most likely won't. THIS IS CRAZY.

Posted by: commonsense on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:36 AM
Dear Governor, CALL A SPECIAL SESSION ALREADY!

Posted by: Bob on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:34 AM
They should raise the age from 19 to 30 so my sister can get rid of her son that won't leave home.

Posted by: M on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:25 AM
Who's job is it to call a special session of the state legislature to get this bill changed? Is it the governor's? If so, the governor is not doing his job!!! Nebraska is beginning to be known as the "child dumping ground"!!!! This law needs to be changed to read "infants".

Posted by: Erin on Oct 13, 2008 at 11:10 AM
I think it is quite touching that they made a special trip here to drop off their kid...

Posted by: Walker on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:58 AM
Forget a haunted house , if you want to scare your kids just tell them your taking them to OMAHA !!!

Posted by: B on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:24 AM
We're already known as the "Tax me" state, now we have the notoriety of being the state where you can dump your kids off too. I'm sure our state leaders are proud of themselves. Way to go! Let's remember all of this inaction come re-election time.

Posted by: John on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:23 AM
I don't think this is what the Nebraska Tourism Board had in mind when they were thinking of new ways to bring people in from out of state for a visit.

Posted by: Shocked on Oct 13, 2008 at 10:20 AM
That poor kid. I wonder what the parent told him as to why he was going to Nebraska. Hopefully the kid didn't have to spend that whole trip knowing he was going to be left by someone who was supposed to love him. What a joke. I hope that parent faces prosecution in Michigan.

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