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  • Abandoned Bluffs Teen Returned To Family Save Email Print
    Grandparents say they did it to "Teach her a lesson."
    Posted: 11:28 AM Oct 8, 2008
    Last Updated: 11:45 PM Oct 9, 2008
    Reporter: Gary Smollen
    Email Address: sixonline@wowt.com


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    The Council Bluffs teen abandoned at an Omaha hospital Tuesday under Nebraska's Safe Haven Law has been reunited with her family.

    Her grandparents dropped her off at Creighton University Medical Center saying they couldn't care for her any longer. That story has since changed.

    Nebraska Health and Human Services director Todd Landry said Thursday the grandparents admitted they dropped the girl off to teach her a lesson.

    After examining a number of factors, Douglas County decided reunification was the best option for everyone involved.

    Chief Deputy Douglas County Attorney Brenda Beadle tells Channel 6 News the decision was reached after examining a number of factors. Because the girl and her grandparents live in Council Bluffs, both state Child Protective Services were contacted by Nebraska officials.

    It was determined, according to Beadle, that filing with the Douglas County Juvenile Court was not the best course of action and that the child is not in any danger.

    "We looked at the child's situation in general in terms of any risk of harm that posed itself to the child if returned to the parental care, so really looked at more than the isolated incident of the use of the Safe Haven Law,” says Douglas County Deputy Attorney Nicole Brundo Goaley.

    Iowa state officials are stepping in to make sure the family is getting the assistance it needs and will continue to monitor the situation.

    There have already been 16 kids dropped off by parents, grandparents or guardians under the Safe Haven Law. Other states average one to three infants per year.

    The 14-year-old Council Bluffs girl was the first from out of state left in Nebraska and it may not be the last time someone comes in from out of state to use Nebraska's Safe Haven Law.

    The statute covers everyone who wants to drop off a child of any age. Everyone Channel 6 News has talked to says they expect more kids brought to Nebraska to be dropped off, from Iowa, Kansas and Colorado.

    Perhaps the best know of Nebraska's Safe Haven cases is the Staton saga that continues to attract attention simply because of the number of children involved. Seven are still with an aunt in Lincoln. The Juvenile Court case remains frozen until the Appellate Court hears several motions.

    When legislators passed the broad bill, few expected this many problems, but local hospitals did expect some trouble and planned for it.

    "We did anticipate that there could be adolescents and older children and not just infants, so our policy from the beginning was set up to handle a child of any age,” says Cindy Owen with the Nebraska Medical Center.

    All hospitals have procedures in place when a child is dropped off under the Safe Haven Law. The first is to try and get the child's name and any medical history the person dropping them off will provide.

    The child is then taken to the emergency room to be examined and police and child protective services are called. The county attorney then starts the Juvenile Court process to place the child.

    While Nebraska Gov. Heineman has been reluctant to call a special session to resolve the controversy surrounding the Safe Haven Law, lawmakers are proceeding with their own investigation. A public hearing has been scheduled for November 13th.

    Sen. Gwen Howard of Omaha co-sponsored the Safe Haven Act. She hopes a special session isn’t necessary. "This joint hearing will be November 13th. We're only a month-and-a-half away from the Legislature convening. That's in January. So I'm hopeful that we don't have to have a special session, that we can deal with this effectively come January."

    A complete copy of the bill adopted by the Nebraska Legislature follows:

    Legislative Bill 157 - Final Reading
    Introduced by Stuthman, 22; Adams, 24; Ashford, 20; Carlson, 38;
    Christensen, 44; Fischer, 43; Fulton, 29; Gay, 14;
    Hansen, 42; Howard, 9; Johnson, 37; Lautenbaugh, 18;
    McDonald, 41; Nantkes, 46; Pahls, 31; Pankonin, 2;
    Pirsch, 4; Wallman, 30.

    Read first time January 8, 2007

    Committee: Judiciary

    A BILL FOR AN ACT relating to children; to prohibit prosecution for
    leaving a child at a hospital; and to provide a duty for the hospital.
    Be it enacted by the people of the State of Nebraska,

    LB 157
    Section 1. No person shall be prosecuted 1 for any crime
    based solely upon the act of leaving a child in the custody of an
    employee on duty at a hospital licensed by the State of Nebraska.
    The hospital shall promptly contact appropriate authorities to take
    custody of the child.

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    Posted by: brenda on Oct 21, 2008 at 10:39 AM
    I understand why frustrated parents from Iowa would drop off their teenager in NE. I have a teenager that habitually runs away and I have tried every possible solution that has been recommended to me and I always get the same reply, that there is nothing they can do about "runaway behavior." So I implore all these spokespeople that come on the news insisting that there are so many other options in place to talk to me and walk me through the process; because I am at my wit's end with my 15 year old daughter. (cell phone 250-4607)

    Posted by: T on Oct 10, 2008 at 11:16 PM
    Good for you Nikki!! No one else knows what you are going through.

    Posted by: Nikki on Oct 10, 2008 at 04:01 PM
    To MB; I would like to respond to your comments that you made on this regarding me and my "unruly child". Do you know me? Do you know my child? I did everything that I could and further more, I did turn my child in several times, and nothing happened to her. I spoke with school officials, police officers, and judges. So before you speak out of school, I think you should know your facts. You obviously do not know me or you would know what I went through with my child and the effort that I and my husband put forth to get her straightened out. So the next time you would like to comment on someone, please know what you are commenting about. It is not as easy as just saying I need help. You have to be in financial need or the child has to be a danger to themselves or others. Check your facts for the State of Iowa MB. You know nothing!

    Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 10, 2008 at 07:26 AM
    We need to allow parents to be parents- whatever that means- within reason in their eyes. Parents, on the other hand, need to be parents and get involved in their children's lives. Believe teachers that your child is not always perfect! Teachers can usually peg the kids that are going to get into trouble years before it happens based on the parents and repeated student behavior!

    Posted by: Patricia on Oct 10, 2008 at 12:19 AM
    People are having so many problems controlling their children because the states have taken control & tell us what we can & can't do when it comes to punishment. Back in the 60's & 70's when spankings were not a crime, children were obedient & listened to their parents. Now that the state has decided when & what type of punishment can be doled out, children know they have an out. They can simply tell their parents "If you do that I will call the police on you". If on the off chance they do call because they are mad, parents are now put out there as abusers. The system sucks.

    Posted by: Paul on Oct 9, 2008 at 09:20 PM
    Unfortunately, LB 157 is just another failure for Nebraska. Let's just put our ultra conservative state on display for the nation to see our negligence. What an oximoron, we can't pass legislation to allow gambling for dollars but we can pass something to gamble with childrens lives. We should be ashamed to live in this state because our leadership is weak.

    Posted by: Jean on Oct 9, 2008 at 07:39 PM
    To Doug: Even if you showered billions of dollars into helpful programs...you cannot make people change if they don't want to. The programs would be abused, just like the ones that are already in place. Don't blame Buffett or Gates for what they choose to do. I'm sure they give $$ to things they think will benefit. Why waste more money on people who have children and don't parent them? To frustrated: Don't expect DHS or others to fix problems. I don't have children, because it's a choice I made. Why should taxpayers have to pay for poor choices of others when it comes to raising children? People need to start looking at other family for help. Where are the extended families? Blood should still be thicker than water, right? Seems relatives only come out of the woodwork in these cases if they can get $$ from the State, too. SAD.

    Posted by: Jay on Oct 9, 2008 at 07:20 PM
    You've got to be kidding me. NOW the grandmother is stating she was just teaching her a lesson? I think the grandmother now should be charged with abandonment. What about the waste of expense to the state of nebraska? What about the workers time, effort, let alone their wages? Wow..."I wanted to teach her a lesson." Well...let's see. Now she'll never trust the one person she SHOULD trust. She'll probably have abandonment issues once she's a grown adult. If she's not charged with any crime, they should at least bill the grandparents for the expense in processing the young girl. Or are we telling parents that it is ok to abandon their children as a lesson? This girl simply didn't go to school, and now she was the victim of a horrible punishment. I think because grandma saw how much negative attention, she thought better than to just walk away.

    Posted by: MB on Oct 9, 2008 at 06:34 PM
    Gee, Nikki... did you ever stop to consider why your child is so unruly? Could it be possible that you raised her to be that way? Absolved her of responsibility for her actions all her life? Made excuses for her (a divorce was hard on her, school was difficult, she wasn't as pretty as the other girls, we didn't have enough money, I had to work long hours, etc.)? People need to raise their kids to be accountable. If she breaks the law, turn her in. If she assaults you, that's breaking the law, even. If she runs away, report her as a runaway. Don't bail her out; don't pay her fines. When she is old enough, require her to get a job if she wants anything more than the basic necessities. Quit coddling her; if you don't teach her how the real world works now, she won't be prepared to live in it later. My parents raised me like that, and I love them for it. Making a mess of your kid and then dumping her in someone else's lap sure doesn't set an example of responsibility, now does it?

    Posted by: Kate on Oct 9, 2008 at 05:57 PM
    "The ones to blame are the reps in the Unicam in Lincoln " I disagree, the one's to blame are the people of Nebraska who keep voting in the same idiots to the Nebraska Legislature. We need to wake up and look at what those elected officials are doing down there. If we don't we will just keep getting more laws like this and my personal favorite, the one where even though I have no money to buy gas they are ok with taxing me to death so someone here illegally can get a college education. Just love it. Wake up Nebraska and get involved with your elected officials. Our country and state depend upon it.

    Posted by: Nikki on Oct 9, 2008 at 05:00 PM
    I hope that returning the child to the grandparents doesn't backfire. They say that they are going to get the family help and I hope that is true. I hope it doesn't bankrupt these people. I had a child that was so unruly, I went to the courthouse here in Council Bluffs and begged for help. I was told by several different areas that nothing can be done until she breaks the law. I looked into several girls homes as well. The lowest cost would have been almost 1800.00 a month. I did not qualify for any assistance and was at my wits ends. SO those of you that are saying these people should get help, chances are they have tried. Unless you are on welfare in Iowa or have very deep pockets it is almost financially impossible. I feel for these people because I know what it is like to not be able to control a child any longer. It is just sad and the rude comments are probably from people who don't have a clue.

    Posted by: Dave on Oct 9, 2008 at 04:37 PM
    Correct me If I am wrong. But you are generally REUINITED with someone if your missing,kidnapped,or a long lost friend or family member. how do they call it being reuinited,if you dispose of your child like a BAG OF TRASH? These people should be charged with felony child abodonment charges!

    Posted by: To ??? on Oct 9, 2008 at 03:48 PM
    It was the most popular story on CNN.com last night, the Today show did a segment about it this morning.

    Posted by: to ??? on Oct 9, 2008 at 01:52 PM
    It's been on the national news. I've seen it several times.

    Posted by: Charlie on Oct 9, 2008 at 11:01 AM
    Maybe they should write another law that says that kids can drop off their parents if they are dead-beat parents. You know the ones who never should have had kids in the first place and don't know the first thing about being a mom & dad. Then maybe we can get to the real problem here.

    Posted by: K on Oct 9, 2008 at 09:39 AM
    Well the gates are open now thanks to all the publicity surrounding this unfortunate law. So look for more out of state kids to show up at Creighton, since the hospital was featured in the stories so predominant all over the national news. I was afraid of this. Nebraska Law makers better be calling for some immediate changes or Creighton better make some more room.

    Posted by: Joe on Oct 9, 2008 at 08:02 AM
    Department of tourism new slogan: Come to Nebraska and we’ll keep your kids.

    Posted by: ??? on Oct 9, 2008 at 06:49 AM
    I haven't seen it on national news and I watch all the major news channels every night all night

    Posted by: Anonymous on Oct 9, 2008 at 12:04 AM
    Here's the problem, and kids know it. 1. You discipline your kid in public, and someone becomes offended by it, then welcome to court. 2. You don't discipline your child, because little johnny is such an angel that we give him everything. Well wake-up and smell the coffee little johnny will some become a teenager that wants the world without understanding the value of the dollar or the word responsibility. Did our parents not discipline us when we were younger? Did we turn out to be decent people? Good questions, that need answers, but no one will answer them. Yes children do need protection from adult idiots, but not every adult is an idiot, and since we give children everything these days I would say welcome to the problem. Try to teach them morals and values, set limits, and be a responsible parent and you will be told you are out of touch - to me it's just good parenting. To kids it's not giving them what they want, and as a society that is acceptable. To me its wrong.

    Posted by: Doug on Oct 8, 2008 at 10:15 PM
    There are those of us that would give anything to have kids, and we have people just dropping them off. At the same time, Mr. Chambers would rather the children stay in a bad situation rather than be voluntarily removed. Mr. Chambers, you say you fight for children...I think not. Why don't you go back to your little barbershop and let the civilized society deal with these issues in a civilized manner. To everyone else, we need to come together and help these kids. Yes, we even need to help those that dropped them off. I honestly think you have to have hit rock bottom to drop off your kids and just walk away. Good law, poorly designed and poorly implemented. Too bad that Mr. Buffet didn't put some of his billions to helping kids in Nebraska rather than giving it to Mr. Gates who already has billions. Sorry, but it just seems like many people have the wrong priorities all the way around. While you may not like her, but Hillary did say it takes a village to raise a child.

    Posted by: ANON on Oct 8, 2008 at 05:44 PM
    I don't think the law needs to be changed. I believe they should create programs to help these troubled kids become accepted by society. They need to reach out to the parents who cannot handle them and aren't allowed to discipline them.

    Posted by: Tim on Oct 8, 2008 at 04:44 PM
    This bill is something I would expect out of a state like California. The dump-your-kid law is quickly becoming a national joke.

    Posted by: frustrated on Oct 8, 2008 at 04:43 PM
    I am so sick of hearing officials criticize parents for using the only resource available to help with troubled children. They only have themselves looking foolish because they passed the law and instead of wasting time criticizing others they should acknowledge that there is a problem with the system and find ways to help parents and children. I have been trying for over a month to get some help for my daughter , who also has a newborn , and noone wants to do anything until one of them ends up dead and then it will be someone elses fault. My daughter is in a real dangerous place and I worry every minute and then i have listen to all these fools giving useless advice. If DHS would do anything to help parents would not have to resort to safe haven. it's time to do something or shut up.

    Posted by: LLR on Oct 8, 2008 at 01:46 PM
    Go ahead and call the special session already. The more this drags on, the more ridiculous it becomes. Now we have Iowans coming over here to dump their troubled teens...where will it end?!

    Posted by: ricochet000 on Oct 8, 2008 at 01:45 PM
    How can you not review all wording and context before passing a law. This is just stupidity on lawmakers parts...

    Posted by: Mae on Oct 8, 2008 at 01:38 PM
    Get on it people! Again NE makes the National news with the lastest. Do we have to always be the state last and wrong?

    Posted by: Al on Oct 8, 2008 at 12:51 PM
    Hey, the folks in Lincoln opened this door, now they need to deal with it! The ones to blame are the reps in the Unicam in Lincoln that just had to have the bill the way it is at the moment BEFORE they would let it pass. So they need to quit crying and making it seem that the people that are using the law as it is written are being irresponsible. They need to blame themselves, and accept the responsibility for not doing what we elected to do; write laws that CANNOT be abused. Until they fix this mistake they made; it IS correct and it IS morale under the law they wrote!

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